[무엇이든 물어보살 72회]
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각자 살아온 시간이 다른데 어떻게 한번에 딱 맞겠어요
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처음에는 친해지려고 일부러 노력도 많이 하고
얘기도 많이 하는 시간을 가졌었는데
멤버들이 그런걸 좋아하는 성격들이 아니더라구요
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막 부담스럽게 하는 것보다 그냥 두고 자연스러운게 좋음
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멤버들이 뭘 좋아하고 싫어하는 지를 알아야 함
너무 가까이에서 부담스럽게 하는게 아니라
적당한 거리를 두고 관심있게 바라봐주는 것
그리고 나중에 카톡 같은거 하나 남겨준다던지 함
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프로농구팀 n년짬바 팀플전문가 선녀
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과한 개입 -> 또 다른 감정소모
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개인의 감정을 존중하는 것이 중요
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